Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Coming to an understanding

So today started and i was in full swing of things. Living this intervention to the core but jeepers it has most definitely been the hardest day so far.  Sticking to the core attitude and idea of being a ten year old. Annoying people, helping them dealing with my emotions, thinking boys have cooties, not doing anything on my own.
Going back in time and trying to delve into how i was when i was younger is such a mission. So with the help of a few readings based on understanding child development i hope to get better insight before i go to my cousins school tomorrow.

Sean Brotherson, Family Science Specialist, states in his publication that, 
"The development of a child's brain holds the key to the child's future. Although the "first years last forever" in terms of the rapid development of young children's brains, the actual first years of a child's life go by very quickly. So touch, talk, read, smile, sing, count and play with your children. It helps a child's brain develop and nourishes the child's potential for a lifetime."
(http://www.ag.ndsu.edu/pubs/yf/famsci/fs609w.htm. Bright Beginnings #4 Understanding Brain Development in Young Children fS-609,  APRIL 2005 Sean Brotherson, Family Science Specialist, NDSU Extension Service, 3/16/11

So from when a child is born to about the age of 18 a child is still developing however emotionally and mentally we are all still learning. In relation to this project i am learning how to let go and relax and maybe just be a child again. 

A child development Guide: 9- 10 by Washington state department of Social and Health Services gives a layout on what to expect from your child at the age of 10. 

(Education.com,Washington state department of Social and Health Services http://www.education.com/reference/article/Ref_Child_Center_Nine/, 3/16/11)

Intellectual Development: 
Clear distinctive interests and are very curious interested in facts with abstract thinking and reasoning. Individual differences become more marked. Enjoy reading, writing and using books. Like to collect things.
Emotional Development: 
May have some behavior problems especially if not accepted by others. They are beginning to seek their independence and loyalty.
Moral Development:
Becoming conscious of fairness, highly competitive, argues over fairness, has difficulty admitting mistakes but is becoming more capable of accepting failures and mistakes and taking responsibility for them. Acquiring a conscience, is aware of right and wrong, mostly wants to do right but at times overreacts and rebels.
Social Development:
Boys and girls differ in personalities, characteristics and interests; are very group/ club orientated but always with the same sex. Boys especially begin to test and exercise independence. Mostly interested in friends and social activities like group adventures and cooperative play.
Physical Development: 
Mainly boys take interest in active rough games. Have good body control and begin developing strength, skill, speed and enjoy more complicated crafts. Girls on the other hand develop faster but subtly. 

2 comments:

  1. I remember when I was round about ten. I was always playing rugby with all my buddies. Seems still to this day those are my closest friends. Perhaps one forms bonds much easier and stronger when you are younger too? In my experience I come to this conclusion. What do you think Terri and is this related to actual development of the 10 year-old's brain.

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  2. well when i was ten we were evacuated from zim so i left a lot of my childhood friends behind or they moved around the world. Know going back to zim there are the few that i am friends with but its not the same. In terms of development girls are still growing up and there are going to be a few fights and days where they feel lonely till they find their friend that they can really rely on. As well this i believe my true true friend only came into my life in my teens. those that stuck by me through thick and thin...

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